A sense of helplessness lies behind fear and hate. If a person is afraid of something, he is not able to do it.
And when what he fears happens to him, after a while fear will be replaced by cold hatred. A feeling of hate is a feeling of regret caused by our inability to protect ourselves from our own helplessness. Fear and hate arise in situations, people and events for which we are incapable and cannot find a solution. A person who feels strong enough and able to solve all problems does not need to be afraid and hate at the end of his defeat. Fear and hate are, in fact, the emotions of weak people.
Smart people like to talk about their defeat and their past pain. Because these people really show how they learned from life …
Yes, we are afraid as a society! We all have fears that we cannot overcome, and terrible and cruel fears. There are fears that surround us everywhere: from the cradle to the grave, from home to work, from the street to the park. These fears are created consciously or unconsciously. The fear of people in the society in which we live is, in particular, one of the most trained feelings. “Fear of a stranger,” “Fear of the beast,” “Fear of the doctor.” Although the most insignificant fear is to be afraid of a person. Loving or loving someone is the most important key to solving the fear and the many prejudices that it entails.
But in this country, people never know how to overcome their fears. However, since childhood this is taught alone and only to increase fear and fear. However, they never learn to get rid of fears and face them …
In this way, weak and repetitive people are created.
After all, people who live with ghost stories, who are not sure of themselves and who are sure of themselves, are raised in this country.
Impotence and escape from feelings of inadequacy are the basis of all fears. Fear is actually an animal emotion and is caused by the inability of animals to find a solution to certain events. So much so that the animal may not be able to solve the slightest problem, and all the problems and uncertainties that may be the problem are the source of its fear.
Because he may not be able to solve the problem, and the problem can create extinction and destruction for him.
In this sense, biphobia is the behavior of fear, hatred and open, closed or emotional violence against people known to be bisexual in society, without a logical reason. In fact, this is a psychological illness caused by internal contradictions of people and their own deficiencies.
And people with this disease have very simple and fundamentally wrong logical methods: generalization. According to these people, a unique experience with an event, a fact and a person is worth it. If your foot slipped in the same place, it will slip again when you walk in the same place. According to this logic, for example, if the theft of bisexuals has committed a crime, all bisexuals are thieves. And this type of logic is the most basic form of reasoning used by Bifob people.
There is a difference between gender identity and sexual orientation. A homosexual is a man with a gender identity, but in terms of sexual orientation he is homosexual. Therefore, being gay or lesbian is related to the bed, sexual roles and sex of your partner in bed. This masculine principle is like a gay gender identity.
Many of the gays and lesbians I’ve met in my life have been incredibly biphobic. LGBT organizations and staff ensure that training is sufficient even in Turkey. Many LGBT organizations and trainings in Turkey also ignore bisexual people. The main problem in these organizations is often gay and their problems. However, with respect to bisexuals, even those organizations are trying to suspend emoticons and immediately close the problem of bisexuality. A few months ago I received a letter that cursed and insulted because I was only bisexual in the Lambda Istanbul message group. No one in the group with hundreds of members on this topic did anything against this post. They acted as if there was a very ordinary situation. However, if someone sent a letter criticizing homosexual sexual orientation